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30 October 2006 @ 12:49 am
 
Ok, I said the other day that I wasn't afraid to talk to Ryan and ask him question's on his forum, but now I am! Not to talk to him, but I'm wanting to ask him about this,

"Ok here's the story. I heard Bam tell it one time when he and Jess were on demolition radio. It happened few years ago when Bam and Dunn were on tour with CKY for one reason or another. It was just them on the bus. Dunn was sleeping in one of those little tour bus bunks and Bam was lying in another and Bam thought it would be funny for the next person to come on the bus to see him and Dunn in the same small bunk so Bam desided climbed into Dunn's bunk. But then Bam ended up falling asleep so when the next person came on the bus (I think it was Jess) he found Dunn and Bam spooning together, both fast asleep. You gotta admit it is a funny joke. If you believe Bam when he says it was. I think he just wanted to cuddle with Dunn and the 'joke' was just an excuse to do so."

To see if it's true. I just always wondered it was or not. Something tell's me I might get a sarcastic response in return.lol That and I almost asked him before if he knew about all those rumors that were going around about him and Bam not talking anymore last year. I decided against that one. One, I don't want to bring it up and second I'm sure he was well aware of everything that was being said.
 
 
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angekavousi on October 30th, 2006 07:18 am (UTC)
You just have to watch how you word it.. (not that he'd get pissed, but he's a boy, short attention span, if its long... he'll skip I bet)

More than asking if it happened, I would say that you heard that Bam and Jess told this story on Demo radio, blah blah spooning, does he remember it and whats his take? (and do photos exists!) :P

I wouldnt bring up the bad time between him and Bam... because, yeah, just going to a bad place (dont want him thinking neg thoughts/associated with the forum... I will slap an infraction on anyone who mentions the car crash!! and scares him away) and he's only going to give a PC bullshit response. He's not going to come out and bare his soul and what Bam did to make it better.
carleybabes on October 30th, 2006 07:23 am (UTC)
You know its only a matter of time before the car crash gets brought up, some way or another...

...and some jackass will ask if he ever fucked a dude or something and that'll be the end of that.

People suck.



But anyway...dude, ask him about it (but like Ange said, in a short way)! He's the king of like, sarcastic answers, he'll say something really gay that'll have all the Dugera girls breathing into paper bags, no doubt.
angekavousi on October 30th, 2006 07:50 am (UTC)
And if anyone brings up the car crash.. I will break out the full Mod crap and delete.. and if they ask again, infraction time. Susan (supermod) and I are on the same wave length...hell, I think we all are.. protect Ryan. We have it in his own words that it bums him out and he doesnt want to talk about it...so he aint getting asked about it!

Its my section of the forum... trust me, its heavily patrolled by me, the supermods and even Eric is watching it. No one will make Ryan cry or get ansty!

Holly, if you dont wanna ask, I will!
Holly[info]sidneym_88 on October 30th, 2006 07:57 am (UTC)
*Laughs*
You and Susan are definitely Super-mod's, Ange!

Its my section of the forum... trust me, its heavily patrolled by me, the supermods and even Eric is watching it. No one will make Ryan cry or get ansty!

I agree. No crying or angst. None at all.

Holly, if you dont wanna ask, I will!

Aw, you don't have to do that. Even if I worked up the nerve(Very doubtful) I'm trying to think of a good way to put it you know?
Holly[info]sidneym_88 on October 30th, 2006 07:27 am (UTC)
I'm not gonna ask him about either one for obvious reasons. One, I'm to chicken to even ask about the first one, and I already know the answer like I said about the rumors. I know what's appropriate and what's not thankfully.

will slap an infraction on anyone who mentions the car crash!! and scares him away) and he's only going to give a PC bullshit response. He's not going to come out and bare his soul and what Bam did to make it better.

I would NEVER ask about that. Ever. I'll leave that up to Dumb and Dumber(A.K.A Gee & Frantz). I've heard enough about it to know how hard it is for Ryan AND Bam to talk about it.
Maddy[info]apostrophee on October 30th, 2006 07:37 am (UTC)
Well damn -looks like I posted in the wrong post.

::joins correct party::

I say avoid the last question for 1.) It could trigger a very annoyed response and make him think about a bad time and 2.) Do we really want to confrim that? I mean, we already pretty much assume we know, but there's still that linger doubt of 'maybe we're all reading too much into something that never happened'.

I definitly say ask the first one! Seriously, not just because my slasher would worship you, but because I can see him laughing at that one and typing back 'Bam and I cuddle all of the time, so I'm not sure which time you mean -but yeah -he's my cuddlebug for the cold nights' so yeah -even if he just plays it off, it'd bound to get a laugh knowing how his personality seems LOL!
Holly[info]sidneym_88 on October 30th, 2006 07:41 am (UTC)
I say avoid the last question for 1.) It could trigger a very annoyed response and make him think about a bad time and 2.) Do we really want to confrim that? I mean, we already pretty much assume we know, but there's still that linger doubt of 'maybe we're all reading too much into something that never happened'.

I was never going to actually ask, it just crossed my mind was all. Like I told Ange we probably already know the answer. Looking back on it I really feel bad for the both of them. I'm sure it doesn't help your relationship with each other will the crap that's being said. I'm just glad that whole thing is over.

I definitly say ask the first one! Seriously, not just because my slasher would worship you, but because I can see him laughing at that one and typing back 'Bam and I cuddle all of the time, so I'm not sure which time you mean -but yeah -he's my cuddlebug for the cold nights' so yeah -even if he just plays it off, it'd bound to get a laugh knowing how his personality seems LOL!

I know he would probably get a laugh out of it, which makes me wonder why I'm so scared of asking. I don't have the gut's to do it.lol
angekavousi on October 30th, 2006 07:48 am (UTC)
exactly...perfect for him...and us! If he gets to giggle and have fun at the computer, then we are not homework his mom and big bro are making him do.

'yeah Bam and I spoon all the time, but on tour, I usually fuck Chad, but he wont cuddle'

angekavousi on October 30th, 2006 08:20 am (UTC)
talking to myself... which isnt new..

If you dont wanna ask, I will. Or,either way, if you wanna come up with a group phrased question.. that cool.

I dont wanna cock block Nic or any of the pending questions, but I have 2 on deck. Is he in Dreamseller and pushing for the Rooftop and Ryan show, if he cant find a muzzle for Frantz!
Amanda[info]so_pseudogoth on October 30th, 2006 08:36 am (UTC)
I wouldn't ask about the cuddle question, but it has nothing to do with how I think Ry would reply. I mentioned Dugera to him when we hung out and he laughed really hard about it, so I doubt he'd get offended or anything. But the people on the boards are pretty anti-slash on a general level. I know a lot of slashers are lurky but any time fanfic or slash got brought up in my memory on Novak's, Bam's, or Dunn's board (granted, I dropped my membership to all three forums so who knows anymore), people got flamed HARDCORE by the hetero chicks who think they'll one day be the ones milking [insert CKY-er of choice]'s balls.

I'd ask something less specific. Like, "I've heard rumors about you having cuddle-time with other guys, like the story on Radio Bam about you and Bam sharing a bunk on a tour bus and spooning. Who's your favorite snuggler?" or something like that. Dunn won't get offended by it and likely you'll get a hilarious response that's more open-ended and gives him more room to work with. By limiting your question to asking him to give you more details about one specific story you've heard, he can only give you a very limited response without just basically retelling the story.
angekavousi on October 30th, 2006 09:22 am (UTC)
I dont think any anti slash vibe exists on Dunns board, 70% of people who have joined in the last 4 months are from here, and hell you got me and Catt as mods...and the 'is Bam gay poll?', speaks volumes, put up by a non slash mod. We keep overt slash (and any very risque talk) off the boards, for Linda and his young cousins sake, but damn, his last text was pretty slashy and anything with Rooftop is pure slash, so nothing wrong with keeping the humor in line with his.

But the story has nothing to do with Dugera or slash... it was a practical joke gone wrong. But, only one 15 yr old (slash) girl in the whole world has heard the story, no one records Hawk's show and I think we are all kinda curious if its really legit or not. Granted, Jess would be a better person to ask, but Deron has taken custodyof ask CKY.

Dunn's been reading tons of old stuff on the board and keeps coming back, so, like you said, he seems cool with it. Of all the colorful things I have said, his only remark was to confirm my guess about Angie's ethnicity as correct.

Its my section to mod and I can safely say that if its asked, in any form, not even an eyebrow will be raised...and hell, I'll even ask it. Happily, I see a great response from it!

 

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